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Building Your Support Network: Talking to Family and Friends about Osteoporosis

Our family and friends can form a valuable support team for us as we work through the challenges of living life with osteoporosis. They can be both cheerleaders and caregivers who provide us with encouragement and assistance when we need it. 

In this article, we will explore practical strategies you can use to help build and educate a personal support network you can rely on. Your network – the people you spend most of your time with every day – may not have a good understanding of what osteoporosis is and how it impacts your daily life and activities. We’ve been in this position, and we are here to help by sharing ideas about how to talk to your family and friends (as well as acquaintances) about your osteoporosis and how to ask for support when you need it.

Why is this important? Living with osteoporosis is an emotional and physical journey that lasts a lifetime, so it’s important to have a support team that you can rely on and feel comfortable talking with during your journey. 

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10 strategies to help your support network learn the about osteoporosis:

There are many ways your support team can learn about osteoporosis. Some may prefer to read reliable information, while others would rather talk with you, listen to podcasts, watch webinars or participate in your appointments. Sometimes, a member of your team may not understand how serious osteoporosis really is. Education is the key. Here are some ideas to help you begin to build their knowledge base and get support.

1. Share articles from the Osteoporosis Canada website where you’ll find important evidence-based articles about this disease such as:

  • What is osteoporosis? What is it not?
  • Risks or limits for those with osteoporosis
  • Facts and stats on osteoporosis

2. Invite someone from your team to join you at your next healthcare appointment to learn more about your treatment and specific needs. Encourage them to ask questions. Don’t forget that the professionals on your healthcare team are also part of your larger support team. These healthcare professionals may include your doctor, pharmacist, physiotherapist, dietician and/or other specialists who support you.

3. Listen to a webinar or podcast together that discusses osteoporosis and some of the important lifestyle changes that you may want to make to help you avoid fractures.

4. Print reliable resources about osteoporosis and share them with team members who prefer to read the information.

5. Invite them to join you in the exercises you are doing to improve your bone health and prevent fractures. This is an excellent opportunity to discuss how osteoporosis affects you and what you need to do to keep safe.

6. Cook together and discuss the importance of a nutrient rich diet for bone health. Join an online cooking webinar with Osteoporosis Canada and view their many recipes online.

7. Teach your family and friends about your diet, exercise, precautions, and routines. While they may not have osteoporosis, you can help them support their bones by paying attention to their own health. Discuss the importance of exercising to create strong muscles, improve bone density as well as balance to prevent falls. Also, help them learn about the importance of calcium and vitamin D to maintaining healthy strong bones.

8. Let them know that managing your osteoporosis is important for your physical and mental well being. Tell them how much it means to you to have them there to talk to and learn how this disease impacts you.

9. Share what you are working on to live well with osteoporosis. This might include exercises to improve your bone strength and balance, a well-rounded diet, and changing how you do daily activities to lower fracture risk.  

10. Ask them to help you create an “elevator pitch” to briefly summarize what osteoporosis is and how it affects you. This might be helpful if you are in a situation where you need to avoid an activity that puts you at risk of a fracture or have to ask for help. For example, you could say,  “I have osteoporosis – my bones can break if I  ____________ . Will you help me? You could use this “pitch” when you are at the airport and need assistance lifting your luggage from the carousel or are at home and need someone to get the turkey out of the oven.

Let family and friends know how they can help you:

Tell the people on your care team exactly how they can support you. Some examples include: getting grocery bags in and out of the car, ensuring meals are rich in calcium, shovelling snow/salting outside in the winter, removing tripping hazards (such as area rugs) from the floor, installing grab bars in the bathroom or railings in all stairwells. 

Support can also involve talking and providing emotional support when you need it. We understand that talking with family members and friends about osteoporosis isn’t always easy. These practical suggestions can help you  open the door to conversations about living with this disease and build a support network around you that you can count on. Be sure to visit the Osteoporosis Canada website, where you will find a wealth of evidence-based articles, podcasts and tools that you can share with your family and friends such as:

We invite you to forward and share this article with your support network or anyone that you think would benefit from this information. Join our community by subscribing to this e-newsletter and learn more about the resources available from Osteoporosis Canada.


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

An Action List for Living Well with Osteoporosis

Living with osteoporosis is a unique journey for each of us. For those with mild osteoporosis there may be little impact on how you live – while for others with more severe osteoporosis, it may require us to modify daily activities.

Whatever our fracture risk, it is important that we take care of our health and well being. Having osteoporosis may require us to think in different and creative ways about how we do our daily activities- this is part of our journey.

Senior woman cuddling her two granddaughters outdoors

1. Be kind to yourself

Living with osteoporosis may bring unique physical and emotional challenges, so it is important to be kind to yourself. Practicing self compassion will help you move forward on your journey. Remember to:

  • Take things one day at a time and recognize that you are doing your best.
  • Celebrate the little things you accomplish throughout the day by doing something you enjoy.  
  • Take time for self-care activities like exercise, nutrition, and good sleep.  

2. Focus on your mental well-being

Mental well-being means empowering yourself to be your best by keeping engaged, enjoying activities you care about and maybe even finding new ways to enrich your life. There are various aspects to your well-being including: 

  • Mental health – This includes your emotional, psychological, and social well-being. Having good mental health enables you to better cope with stress and learn and work well. Nurture your mental health by being socially connected, challenging yourself intellectually, getting involved in activities that are meaningful to you, and sharing your concerns with your medical practitioner.  
  • Social engagement – Being social helps you build meaningful relationships with others and your community. Engaging in social activities can help you develop a sense of purpose and belonging.
  • Emotional well-being – This involves managing your emotions to gain control, minimize difficulties, and reduce stress. Ways to help you regulate your emotions include breathing deeply, taking a walk, meditation, and exercise. 

3. Protect your energy levels

It can be challenging to thrive when you are feeling tired, exhausted, and/or overwhelmed. Lacking energy understandably has an impact on your daily activities. Here are some ways to help you manage, boost, and protect your energy levels:

  • Balanced nutrition – Eat a well-balanced diet that provides essential nutrients for energy production in your body. Think fruits and vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, healthy fats and foods with bone building nutrients including milk products and fortified alternatives. Consider having your groceries delivered or ask a friend or family member to help, as they can be heavy to carry and drain your energy. 
  • Adequate rest – Try to have a regular sleep routine in an environment you find comfortable. If you are having trouble sleeping, try some gentle stretches before bedtime. 
  • Energy conservation – Pace yourself when going about your day, take rest breaks, ask for help, prioritize your tasks and give yourself permission to leave some tasks for another day. Alternate easy tasks with more difficult tasks and save the most challenging tasks for when you know you will have more energy. Take larger tasks and break them up into smaller ones – don’t do them all at the same time. Position yourself in a comfortable and safe way when performing your tasks. Keep objects in cupboards within an easy reach. 

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4. Protect your physical health

As those of us with osteoporosis know, physical health is important to maintaining healthy bones and preventing future fractures. No matter what your capabilities are, consider these important factors:

  • Regular physical activity – Any activity is better than none, including low-impact exercises like walking, swimming, tai chi, or gentle yoga. Please check with an osteoporosis trained health professional to ensure you are moving safely during your exercises. 
  • Preventive care – This includes routine self care activities such as regular exercise, nutrition and good sleep. This also includes avoiding smoking and limiting alcohol consumption. Attending regular appointments with your healthcare practitioner for health screenings and addressing any new issues is also important.
  • Safety and independence – Avoid physical activities that put you at risk for a fracture such as lifting heavy objects or walking on slippery surfaces. Continue to do osteoporosis safe exercises for increased strength and balance which further reduces your risk of falls and fractures. You can create a safe environment at home that minimizes the risk of falls. For example, wear proper footwear, install grab bars in the shower, remove slippery area rugs, and use a grabber to pick things up.  Don’t hesitate to ask for help when needed.  
  • Pain management – Especially while recovering from a fracture, reducing your discomfort through things like medications, assistive devices, and physical therapy can be helpful. 

Remember: You are more than your diagnosis!


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

Special Credit to: Cristian Garcia, MSc, MD Candidate.

Men’s Bone Health: Breaking the Silence on Osteoporosis

Osteoporosis is a common but often overlooked disease in men – a broken bone may be the first sign you have it. Often, osteoporosis in men can be secondary to an underlying cause, be it a pre-existing condition, lifestyle-related factors, or certain medications.

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Men at Risk – Shocking Numbers That Demand Attention

According to Osteoporosis Canada, at least one in five men will break a bone as a result of osteoporosis. Men account for 25% of the 30,000 hip fractures caused by osteoporosis in Canada, and 33% of them will die within one year. Men are also less likely to receive any intervention after experiencing an osteoporotic fracture. A Canadian multi-centre study showed that 90% of men with fragility fractures remained undiagnosed and untreated for osteoporosis1. According to Statistics Canada, of the patients that received osteoporosis management care, men were 3.6 times less likely to have a BMD test and 4 times less likely to receive osteoporosis treatment than women. Hip fractures that are associated with osteoporosis are known to be a sign of an increased risk of future fractures. Studies have shown that less than 25% of male patients received medication to prevent a future fracture after a hip fracture. In contrast, 80% of male patients received medication to prevent a future heart attack after an initial incident2,3

“Men, far too many men, get osteoporosis too…. the fragility fractures I had been receiving were the most obvious but far too often missed warning of osteoporosis.”

– Larry Funnell, a man living with osteoporosis and active member of COPN

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Important Considerations for Men Who Might Be at Risk of Osteoporosis:

1. Get assessed. It is not normal to have a fragility fracture, to break a bone from a minor fall or standing height.

Who should be assessed for osteoporosis and fracture risk?

  • Men (and women) taking certain kinds of medication(s) that may increase bone loss and/or fall risk. For instance, the long-term use of glucocorticoids can interfere with bone formation. Glucocorticoids are used to treat various medical conditions such as rheumatoid arthritis, COPD, and asthma, among others;
  • Canadians 65 and older are considered to be at risk of osteoporosis;
  • Canadians under the age of 65 who have already experienced a fragility fracture or who have additional risk factors for fracture;
  • Men who have hypogonadism (low levels of testosterone that lead to low bone mass);
  • Men being treated with androgen deprivation therapy for prostate cancer. This therapy can accelerate bone loss to a rate similar to that of menopausal women. Androgens are essential for developing and maintaining bone mass;
  • Men (and women) whose lifestyle habits (such as the high daily consumption of alcohol) negatively impact their bone health. Research shows an increased risk of osteoporosis for those who regularly consume 3 or more alcoholic drinks per day. Increased alcohol intake also contributes to an increased risk for falls and is often associated with poor nutrition.

2. Educate yourself about osteoporosis. Osteoporosis Canada’s website, National E-Newsletter and the COPN “Unbreakable” E-Newsletter provides timely, science-based information on how to live well with Osteoporosis – including treatment, nutrition, exercise, support and much more.

  • Talk with your healthcare provider to determine your risk of osteoporosis.
  • Speak with your pharmacist about any possible contraindications of medications you are taking that may affect your bone health.
  • Have a conversation with your physiotherapist and/or occupational therapist about fall prevention, strengthening, how to safely move your body, safe lifting etc.
  • Learn to exercise safely. Keeping fit is important to maintaining and supporting bone health
Two older men going for a run together

3. Communicate openly. Talk to those around you about osteoporosis

  • Ask for help when you need it to prevent placing unnecessary stress on your bones. You may not “look” like you need help, but few will refuse when you say something like, “Excuse me, would you be able to lend me a hand?”
  • Most of us want to help others, but when you are asked to help, consider doing so without the heavy lifting. You might say, “I would love to help you, but I am unable to do the lifting. Let me find someone who can.” Openly sharing your knowledge of osteoporosis will help reduce the stigma men living with this disease may feel and could open the door to help others who may be at risk.

Communicating openly gives you the opportunity to talk about osteoporosis so you can help others gain a better understanding of this disease.

4. Seek treatment.

  • Bisphosphonates and denosumab have been shown to reduce the risk of vertebral fractures in men.
  • There is no evidence that testosterone reduces fractures in men.
  • If your doctor has recommended medication for osteoporosis, talk to them or your pharmacist to find the best option for you. 

Get Involved!


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

References:

1. Papaioannou, A., Kennedy, C. C., Ioannidis, G., Gao, Y., Sawka, A. M., Goltzman, D., Tenenhouse, A., Pickard, L., Olszynski, W. P., Davison, K. S., Kaiser, S., Josse, R. G., Kreiger, N., Hanley, D. A., Prior, J. C., Brown, J. P., Anastassiades, T., Adachi, J. D., & CaMos Research Group (2008). The osteoporosis care gap in men with fragility fractures: the Canadian Multicentre Osteoporosis Study. Osteoporosis international : a journal established as result of cooperation between the European Foundation for Osteoporosis and the National Osteoporosis Foundation of the USA, 19(4), 581–587. https://doi.org/10.1007/s00198-007-0483-0

2. X. Canada PHA of. Government of Canada [Internet]. / Gouvernement du Canada; 2022 [cited 2023 Jun 15]. Available from: https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/publications/diseases-conditions/osteoporosis-related-fractures-2020.html

3. Y. Austin PC, Tu JV, Ko DT, Alter DA. Factors associated with the use of evidence-based therapies after discharge among elderly patients with myocardial infarction. Cmaj. 2008 Oct 21;179(9):901-8.

Credit to: Dalton Budram MD, BSc (PGY-1 Internal Medicine, UofT).

Osteoporosis & Sleeping Well

Sleeping well is vital for our overall health and well-being. The Public Health Agency of Canada recommends adults get 7 to 9 hours of sleep, however, getting quality sleep as we age can be harder due to medications and health issues. Quality sleep is just as important as regular exercise and a healthy diet. 

Osteoporosis can affect the quality and quantity of our sleep. Sleeping positions that used to be comfortable may now cause us discomfort or not give us adequate support. We may find ourselves tossing and turning or worried if some sleep positions are causing us harm.  Thankfully, there are ways to improve our sleep positions that provide support for our bodies and improve the quality of our sleep. 

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What sleeping positions are best for your body? 

Spine alignment in a “neutral” position without putting any strain on your other joints is the key. A “neutral spine” is when the head is positioned so that the ear is over the shoulder and the shoulder is in line with the hip joint. Use this posture when you’re sitting, standing, or lying down too. Whether you are a side, back or stomach sleeper, your goal should be to stay in this neutral position as it lengthens your spine and protects its natural alignment.

The fetal position (curling up) may be your favourite way to sleep, but it can cause strain on the back of your neck and make the spine curve forward which also strains your vertebrae. If this is one of your favourite sleeping positions, gently and gradually practice elongating your spine into a “neutral” position. If you are a daytime napper, think about what position your body is in, especially your head and neck. Is your spine in a neutral position? The same applies to napping, whether you are sleeping in bed, on a chair, on a sofa or in the car. Change takes time; be patient with yourself and listen to your body. 

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How do I choose a mattress to support my osteoporosis? 

If you live with osteoporosis, an ideal mattress would be one that provides you with good spinal support in a neutral spine alignment without causing pressure on your joints.  The “best” mattress is debatable and each person should test a mattress before buying.

Medium-firm mattresses may help with lower back pain, and be easier to shift around in. A firm mattress may cause discomfort for some at the hips and shoulders. Innerspring (coil spring) and memory foam (all-foam) are the most common and affordable mattresses. Foam mattresses “cradle” the body more, adapt to body temperatures, and if too soft, may make it challenging to shift around in.

A restless sleeper may benefit from an innerspring mattress to allow movement without disturbing their partner. Consider the bed’s assembled height as it may be a risk if the bed is too high or too low. Your feet should be able to rest on the floor while sitting on the bed to avoid sliding off.  Think about your room size and space on both sides of the bed to safely get in and out of the bed.

What pillow is best for osteoporosis? 

The purpose of a pillow is to keep your head and neck aligned in a neutral position while you sleep. The first step in choosing a pillow is to determine your dominant sleep position – the position you usually fall asleep in. 

Back sleeper: Choose a pillow that cradles the head and supports the natural curve of the neck. Place another one under the knees to flex the knees and relieve spine tension.

Side sleeper: Place a pillow lengthwise between your knees and ankles to level the top leg with the pelvis. This prevents hip twisting. Try a body pillow, a long pillow about 136 cm (54 inches), which can be placed in front between knees and cuddled, or behind to support the back. 

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Stomach sleeper: Choose a thin, “scrunchable” pillow since your face is very close to the mattress. Keep in mind that in this position, the head is turned to the side most of the night adding strain to your neck and spine. 

Other things to consider when buying a pillow are:

  • Test the firmness of pillows by using the squeeze test – the harder you have to squeeze to flatten it, the firmer it is;
  • Consider hypoallergenic pillows and check the breathability and heat retention of the materials if you have allergies. 
  • Purchase a pillow with a good-quality cover, and if in doubt, consider buying a pillow protector that can be washed. 

Overall, the best pillow for you fills the space between your shoulder and head so they are neutral.    

Comfort is very subjective, but when the head and neck are aligned in its best neutral position and is well-supported for sleep, you will awake more refreshed.”

– Sharron Steeves, retired physiotherapist

Where should you go to receive more advice from a professional?

You and your doctor can discuss your needs and options. Often a physiotherapist or occupational therapist can assist you by assessing your ideal neutral spine alignment for sleeping.  

After The Fracture


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

Sexuality, Osteoporosis and You

Osteoporosis can have a significant impact on our physical and emotional well-being including how broken bones and the diagnosis of osteoporosis can affect our sexuality and intimacy.

Sexuality can be about how you identify sexually and who you are physically, emotionally, and spiritually attracted to. Being sexual can be more than having sex, and can include touching, kissing, flirting as well as having sex.

Intimacy can be emotional and/or physical, may or may not include sex and can be about feelings of closeness, emotional connections and feeling supported in a personal relationship.

Two people can be very intimate and involved in a social and emotional context (e.g. best friends) yet never sexual with each other. However, two people can be very sexually involved but never intimate with each other. Many relationships are both sexual and intimate.

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Communication is key:

When one partner is affected with osteoporosis, it impacts both partners in a relationship physically and emotionally. Good communication with your partner is essential; it should be honest and ongoing and include personal beliefs, fears, expectations, and the relationship as a whole. It will ease and support a transition to a new type of sexuality. A technique or a position may not be acceptable to both partners, as some positions may put too much pressure on the partner’s osteoporotic bones. These intimate details, unique to each couple, need to be discussed before adaptations can be made with respect to pain and fracture risk.

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Important details to discuss with your partner include:

  • Fears: Fear can act as a barrier to intimacy and sexual activity. Partners may have fear around rejection of intimacy. Many people fear rejection from a partner who perceives or experiences a decline in affection or intimacy. You may also fear getting hurt or hurting your partner with certain positions. There is also the fear of performance failure due to medications, depression, anxiety, and other factors.
    • Your partner may have the same fear as you. It is good to share your thoughts and feelings so that both you and your partner can help each other navigate these fears.
  • Self-image: Living with osteoporosis can make us feel less attractive and less confident in our bodies. We may not want to be intimate with our partner if we are not comfortable in our own skin.
    • You may be both surprised and delighted to find that your partner still finds you as sexy as ever and looks forward to the increased intimacy that overcoming these challenges together will bring.
  • Pain: The severity of osteoporosis, fractures, aches, and poor mobility can impact your sexuality and/or intimacy.
    • Be creative, use any safe additional support that might help and go beyond intercourse.
    • Find positions that are safe and more comfortable for everyone involved depending on the severity of the osteoporosis and the fracture risk – avoid putting too much pressure on osteoporotic bones.

Talk about your fears and concerns with your partner. Recognize that there has been a change and move towards realistically accepting these changes in your life.

Know that it may take time and support from your healthcare provider, your family, and friends but you can handle the change. Turn this journey into a fun adventure. And know, too, that your worth as a human being has not diminished because you cannot do everything you used to be able to do. If you are having difficulty discussing these issues with your partner, try putting your thoughts on paper. Identify the challenges as you see them.

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For example, what is interfering with your intimate or sexual activity? Then share your thoughts. It is important to talk about what you miss. Talk about what your needs were before your diagnosis, and how these needs may have changed. Talk about what you and your partner can still hope to get out of the relationship. Find out how your partner feels about the changes in your body.

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Remember that sexuality and intimacy are not just about having sex. There are many other satisfying ways to be both sexual and intimate. You may need to do some problem-solving to identify these other ways. You may also consider talking to a healthcare professional to help you navigate intimacy and sex with osteoporosis. Often just holding, massaging, kissing, or caressing can be pleasurable and create a feeling of intimacy. Many of us believe that good, passionate sex must be spontaneous, but many experts advise that planned sex is just as rewarding. Planning is often essential for people living with chronic pain or experiencing fatigue that may result from the pain. Consider the time of day when you are most likely to feel energized and the time when your medications may be providing the best pain relief. Make this journey of discovery part of the fun.


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

Support Groups: “It’s wonderful to connect”

Support groups, one of the online programs offered by Osteoporosis Canada, are all about connection. They connect people who not only live with osteoporosis but want to live well with osteoporosis. Each monthly meeting is another opportunity to share knowledge and concerns, to encourage each other — and to just plain spend time with people who know what you’re talking about, because they are in the same situation.

Feedback describes how powerful group participation can be:

  • “It’s wonderful to connect with people who share the same experience.”
  • “I feel privileged to take part in a group. This is a lonely disease if you don’t have a support system.”
  • “I feel so much more confident now, armed with the knowledge, support and friendship I’ve been given over the past year.”
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The Basics

OC’s support groups are managed by Sandy Owczar and Cathy Pearcy, the organization’s two Managers of Community Engagement. Though all groups meet virtually rather than physically, they are with two exceptions broken into regional categories. “This allows discussion in each group to be specific to its own context,” explains Cathy. She adds that the two non-regional categories — Under 40, and Men With Osteoporosis — are also context-specific. “Men face some different issues than women do, often work-related, and people under 40 are also in different circumstances because they are still in the child-rearing and career-building stage of life.”

Each group holds a one-hour meeting every month, via Zoom. A few groups are coordinator-led; most are facilitated by a trained volunteer who either has osteoporosis or has a close connection. Membership is free, and people may remain part of a group as long as they wish.

How to Join – and When

How to join is straightforward. Click the support-groups link shown below; click the appropriate category; and fill in the pop-up email addressed to one of the Managers. Include some basics about your location, circumstances, and diagnosis, both what it is and when your diagnosis was received.

When to join a support group is not as obvious as how. The Managers want to know about your diagnosis, because that information tells them where you are on your journey with osteoporosis. Says Sandy, “That helps us suggest which OC resources will be most useful for you right now.”

Brand-new diagnosis? Call the OC telephone support line; register for any or all of the online webinars (Bone Health 101; Osteoporosis and You; Living Well With Osteoporosis).

Once you’re past that first shock, once you have acquired some information and you feel ready to explore how to live well with the disease — this is the time to consider a support group. Members themselves decide what topics to discuss and are free to participate as much, or as little, as they wish.

It’s your personal journey, but you might like some companionship along the way.

Support groups: https://osteoporosis.ca/support-groups/

Other online programs: https://osteoporosis.ca/programs/

Telephone support: 1-800-463-6842 (Canada only)

Reaching Out: A Support Group Story

After my diagnosis, I felt angry, scared, and overwhelmed. I had just moved to a small, rural community while the pandemic was in full swing and was feeling lonely and isolated. At my doctor’s suggestion, I went to the Osteoporosis Canada (OC) website to learn more about this disease. I discovered so many new things but had lots of questions.

One day, as I was checking out the OC website, I found the “Get Involved” section on OC’s homepage. I moved my cursor over it and spotted, “Get Support” and “Support Groups” in the drop-down menu. I clicked on “Support Groups”, read the description, and knew right away that I had found what I was looking for: a way to connect with others who had osteoporosis while keeping myself safe during the pandemic. I clicked on the group in my area and sent a short email to the address that was provided. I had a very friendly and quick reply from the group’s manager and attended my first virtual osteoporosis support group meeting shortly thereafter. It has been 16 months and I’m still there!

I was a bit nervous about attending my first meeting, especially because it was on Zoom, and I’d hardly ever used this platform before. But the welcoming and supportive group helped me learn the basics of Zoom. They made it easy. I listened closely as people shared their thoughts and experiences.  Some group members had faced multiple fractures, and some were still recovering from them. Others, like myself, were fortunate enough not to have had any fractures (my fingers are still crossed). I was glued to their every word, hoping to figure out how to avoid having a fracture or what to do if I did.

A lot of learning has happened since then and I’m still “glued” to their every word. Sometimes, I even share my own bits of what works for me. Here are some helpful things I’ve learned from my support group:

  • Change can happen over time. Changing too many things at once can feel overwhelming.
  • Scatter exercises throughout the day, doing bits at a time. You can even do some balance or strength training while you are brushing your teeth or waiting for the kettle to boil!
  • Sitting is really hard on the spine. Find ways to get up and move around every 30 minutes.
  • Give your spine “time off” in the day. Lay on your back on your bed (or the floor) for 10-20 minutes.
  • Use walking poles to help you get the weight-bearing and cardiovascular exercise you need without putting too much pressure on your joints.

You don’t have to be alone with this disease. You can reach out and get connected with others who understand what you are going through. You can join one of Osteoporosis Canada’s support groups today!

Warmly,

Jackie Herman


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

The Patient Voice

“Patient engagement” is a concept that first appeared around the year 2000 in the United States and is now a growing movement in many countries, including Canada. The core idea is very simple: the patient voice matters.

Dedicated Osteoporosis Canada volunteer Christine Thomas is one of those voices. She not only lives with osteoporosis, but she is also an author and an advocate for meaningful patient involvement in disease research and management.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO):
Patient engagement is increasingly recognized as an integral part of health care and a critical component of safe people-centered services. Engaged patients are better able to make informed decisions about their care options. In addition, resources may be better used if they are aligned with patients’ priorities and this is critical for the sustainability of health systems worldwide.

Christine’s experience is grounded in her volunteer roles with Osteoporosis Canada’s patient group COPN, and the Institute of Musculoskeletal Health & Arthritis (IMHA) of the Canadian Institutes of Health Research (CIHR), where she is a Patient Engagement Research Ambassador. 

“With meaningful patient engagement, we patients are no longer the passive recipient of decisions made by others. We become active participants in shaping those decisions.”

Christine adds that “patient” here means caregivers and family members as well as the person living with the disease — in other words, all the people directly affected by its impact.

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Types of Patient Engagement

There are two main ways to become engaged as a patient.

The first is with a research project, as research used to be generally carried out on patients – but not with patients. Now, patient partners can help set priorities, develop research questions, conduct some of the research, and participate in sharing the results. Patient engagement leads to more relevant research priorities and recommendations. For example, Christine is one of the patient partners working on the update of the Osteoporosis Canada Clinical Practice Guidelines for the diagnosis & management of osteoporosis in Canada. 

The second way to engage is for personal benefit as more and more institutions offer an online patient portal. For example, The Ottawa Hospital has MyChart – an online portal which gives patients a tool, allowing them to take an active role in their own health care —including tracking appointments, visiting summaries and test results, and then using this information to help shape their daily behaviour and prepare for future appointments. These portals which drive patient/provider engagement are an important first step towards shifting healthcare from a reactive model to one that embraces proactive and preventative healthcare at the primary level.

Ways to Engage

Would you like to raise your voice and be more engaged? Here are some suggestions:

  • Watch out for appropriate research projects and consider applying to take part.
  • Join any patient portals being offered by your own healthcare institutions and make active use of their opportunities.
  • Consider sharing your own story with other osteoporosis patients. You can submit your story on the Osteoporosis Canada website here.
  • Join a support group about how to live well with osteoporosis and to begin networking with others. Learn more here.
  • Learn about the IMHA here.

Christine Thomas knows the benefits of patient engagement firsthand.

“My voice matters. Your voice matters. Every patient’s voice matters.”

Whichever way patients engage, they benefit. They learn more, do more and feel empowered. Engaged patients make better decisions for themselves and they help researchers make better, more relevant decisions that benefit others as well.


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

Medication Adherence: An Ongoing Challenge in the Management of Osteoporosis

If you are on medication for osteoporosis, are you ever tempted to stop taking it?

If your answer is yes, you are not alone. Studies indicate that especially for those with chronic conditions such as osteoporosis, many patients do not take their medication as directed or for as long as they should.

Osteoporosis is a growing problem worldwide, with the greatest burden resulting from broken bones. There are several treatment options available that are effective in reducing fracture risk, but in order to see the benefit, patient adherence is required.

What is meant by medication adherence?

Adherence to medication involves two factors: compliance and persistence. Compliance is taking a medication as directed and persistance is taking a medication for as long as necessary.

Like other chronic diseases, especially those with no symptoms, adherence to osteoporosis therapies is poor. Some articles have suggested that in general, rates of non-adherence can be as high as 50%. In a recent study that looked at people on Ontario Drug Benefits, only 63% of patients given a bisphosphonate prescription were still taking it after one year, and this dropped to 46% after two years.

Close up of a doctor writing a prescription while holding a pill bottle

Why don’t people take their medications as prescribed? Possibilities include:

  • Memory loss. The individual forgets when and how to take the medication.
  • Lack of symptoms.  The need for and benefits of a medication are not felt. This is true of osteoporosis, which is often called “the silent thief” because there are no symptoms unless and until one has fractured.
  • Side effects. The individual may experience side effects or fear the potential for immediate or longer-term side effects in the future.
  • Uncertainty about the benefit of drug treatment or preference for a “natural” approach.
  • Lack of understanding of the disease and the value of medication.
  • Poor communication between the patient and their healthcare provider.
  • Cost of medication.
  • Difficulty following the instructions for use.
  • Complexity of treatment, especially if the patient has multiple conditions requiring multiple drug therapies.

Consequences

Not taking your medication as prescribed has far-reaching consequences.  Poor adherence means that the drug will not be as effective and health will decline. In addition, medical costs will rise.

In 2009, it was estimated that non-adherence cost the US healthcare system $290 billion. There is little data available for Canada, but in 1995 the cost of medication non-adherence was estimated to be $7 – 9 billion annually.

Patients who do not take their prescribed medication do not receive the benefits of that medication. Patients who only partially follow their medication regime may receive some benefit but are also at risk for serious complications. Patients who do not stick with their treatment plan are more likely to end up in hospital. Studies suggest that for people taking bisphosphonate therapy for osteoporosis, those that take 75% of their medication do not have the same reduction in fracture risk as those who take the medication as prescribed 100% of the time; and when patients take only 50% (or less) of their pills, no benefit is seen (it is the same as not taking any bisphosphonate).

Over 80% of fractures in people over 50 are due to osteoporosis. There are effective medications available to reduce the risk of fracture from 30 – 70% provided they are taken properly and 100% of the time. If you are at high risk of fracture, it is very important that you take your osteoporosis medication regularly and as recommended.

A female doctor sits at her desk and chats to an elderly female patient while looking at her  test results

Addressing your concerns

If you have concerns about treatments or medications, you should speak to your doctor – and you should ALWAYS speak with your doctor before making any changes to your medications. 

Together, you can work out how best to handle any problems. This will help ensure that you have the most appropriate therapy strategy possible for your condition and receive the greatest possible benefit from it.

Learn more about drug treatments to treat osteoporosis here.

Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

Buying Drugs Over the Internet

If you buy drugs online, you may be putting your health at serious risk. This is especially true if you order prescription drugs without being examined in person by a healthcare practitioner.

A simple Internet search will turn up hundreds of websites that sell drugs. Some Internet pharmacies are legitimate, but many offer products and services that are dangerous. Some sell drugs that are not approved for use in Canada because of safety concerns. Some take advantage of people desperate for relief by offering “miracle cures” for serious illnesses like cancer. Many offer prescription drugs based on answers to an on-line questionnaire. These sites tell you they will save you the “embarrassment” of talking to your doctor about certain prescription drugs, such as Viagra, or drugs to prevent hair loss, or promote weight loss. What they do not tell you is that it is dangerous to take a prescription drug without being examined in person and monitored by a healthcare practitioner to make sure the drug is helping you.

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Risks Associated with Buying Drugs Online

Buying drugs from Internet pharmacies that do not provide a street address and telephone number may pose serious health risks. You have no way of knowing where these companies are located, where they get their drugs, what is in their drugs, or how to reach them if there is a problem. If you order from these sites, you may get counterfeit drugs with no active ingredients, drugs with the wrong ingredients, drugs with dangerous additives, or drugs past their expiry date. Even if these drugs do not harm you directly or immediately, your condition may get worse without effective treatment.

If you order prescription drugs without being examined and monitored by a healthcare practitioner, you may be misdiagnosed, and miss the opportunity to get an appropriate treatment that would help you. You may also put yourself at risk for drug interactions, or harmful side effects that a qualified health professional could better foresee.

Buying drugs on the Internet may also pose financial risks. In some cases, the product may not be shipped at all, or if it is coming from another country, it could be stopped at the border by Canadian authorities.

The Status of Internet Pharmacy in Canada

A number of pharmacies in Canada have legitimate websites that offer a limited range of products and services, including information for consumers, and shopping for certain items. The practice of pharmacy in Canada is regulated by the provinces, and any licensed pharmacy that offers Internet services must meet the standards of practice within its own province.

If you have questions about whether an Internet pharmacy is legitimate, contact the licensing body in your province or territory.

Minimizing your Risk

Do not take any prescription drug that has not been prescribed for you by a healthcare practitioner who has examined you in person.

Do tell your doctor and pharmacist about all of the health products you take, including vitamin and natural health products, as well as prescription and over-the-counter drugs. They need this information to assess and advise you about potential side effects and drug interactions.

If you decide to order drugs on line:

Do not do business with a website that:

  • refuses to give you a street address, telephone number, and a way of contacting a pharmacist;
  • offers prescription drugs without a prescription, or offers to issue a prescription based on answers to an on-line questionnaire;
  • claims to have a “miracle cure” for any serious condition; or
  • sells products that do not have a DIN (Drug Identification Number) issued by Health Canada.

Do make sure you are dealing with a Canadian-based website that is linked to a “bricks and mortar” pharmacy that meets the regulatory requirements in your province/territory. Finally, if you have a question or complaint about therapeutic drug products purchased on line, call Health Canada’s toll-free hotline: 1-800-267-9675

Health Canada’s role

Health Canada regulates therapeutic drugs in Canada through a rigorous licensing process, which includes an extensive pre-market review and the ongoing post-market assessment of a drug’s safety, effectiveness and quality. As part of this process, Heath Canada conducts risk/benefit assessments, monitors adverse reactions, and communicates information about risks to health professionals and the public. All drugs approved for sale in Canada have an eight-digit Drug Identification Number (DIN). The DIN assures you that Health Canada has assessed a drug, and considers it safe and effective when used as directed on the label. The DIN also provides a way to track adverse drug reactions.

Health Canada licenses and conducts regular inspections of companies that manufacture, import and/or distribute drugs. In addition, Health Canada investigates complaints related to the sale or use of therapeutic drugs, including complaints about websites that sell drugs, and takes action where appropriate. Also, Health Canada works with the Canada Customs and Revenue Agency to control the illegal entry of prescription and over-the-counter drugs. Individual Canadians are allowed to import a three-month supply of therapeutic drugs, subject to a number of restrictions.

©All Rights Reserved.  Buying drugs over the internet.  Health Canada, 2012. Adapted and reproduced with permission from the Minister of Health, 2022.


Credit: COPN, the Canadian Osteoporosis Patient Network is the patient arm of Osteoporosis Canada, a national network of people living with osteoporosis.

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